Unhacking Life

Bullshit Advice— a ‘Recipe’ for Handling It

Who is the most memorable—and eminent—bullshit advice giver you’ve encountered in your life? I’ve met many, but the one who stands out is my …

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Interestingly, the best advice rarely comes from people without an agenda. More often, it comes from those who are able to align their agenda with ours. Now, let's talk about bullshit advice...

How to Make ‘Different’ Your Greates Ally

When you're curious if someone's life experience holds something significant for you, one simple question can reveal a lot: “What do you do …

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Don't make it too easy for people to put you in the same box as them. They might like you for it— but they won't respect you for it. Be different, yet approachable. In fact, be more relatable than predictable.

Are You Afraid of Saber-Tooth Tigers?

Years ago, a friend’s boyfriend—someone I had known for a while—made a comment about himself that instantly put me off: “I’m not actually afraid of …

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If you got rid of all your fears— conscious or unconscious— how much of that "entity" you call "identity" would you lose, and what would emerge instead? It's time to find out...